I agree completely with what you said here. Before this fandom, I haven't read some of the kinks that I've now read and I thought that I read it all. Nope, I still have amazing surprises when reading sanguine2's and azziria's fanfics.
For my experience, when reading a new kink that I haven't read before, I would still leave a supportive message and probably something along the lines of I'm now a puddle from how hot this was.
I also run a kink meme and there has been some instances where people were shamed for this kinks, I have no tolerance for that. At that point, it's a nice reminder of the rules. I remember the one case I had was an entire thread about how the author needed to warn for het because her primary pairing was slash. I've never seen a warning for it and I refuse to force people warn for het or slash.
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For my experience, when reading a new kink that I haven't read before, I would still leave a supportive message and probably something along the lines of I'm now a puddle from how hot this was.
I also run a kink meme and there has been some instances where people were shamed for this kinks, I have no tolerance for that. At that point, it's a nice reminder of the rules. I remember the one case I had was an entire thread about how the author needed to warn for het because her primary pairing was slash. I've never seen a warning for it and I refuse to force people warn for het or slash.