Staring Into the Abyss

I think fandom would be a happier place in general if we imagined the person on the other end more before we hit post. It's easy to forget that whether or not we agree with people about any number of things, that in the end what we do in fandom isn't worth making anyone feel bad over. Whether it's a character we don't like or a kink, bashing just makes for negative dialogue and singles people out.