The only time I've ever warned for something was when I wrote a dub-con fic. I haven't written any non-com or violent sex but if I did I'd warn for that. Those are things that can be real triggers for people so I don't have a problem warning for them. I won't warn for any kinks. I'll explain them in the summary or the A/N but I don't see the need to warn for kinks,especially in a kink meme!
I have,on occasion commented that I usually don't read such and such kind of stories(very few types because I like almost any kind of kink)but I'm not trying to say I'm ashamed of liking it or that I think it's wrong if others do. I mean it as a compliment for the author. People said that to me in the dub-con story I wrote and I could tell from the tone of the comment that they meant it as a compliment as well.
People should never be made to feel ashamed of liking anything.There's enough censorship and shaming about sexuality(especially women and sexuality)in the "real world". We should be encouraging each other to accept ourselves and enjoy sexuality in our online interactions and fandoms. Warning for slash is so ridiculous and insulting. I've never seen warning for het,but I'd say the same thing regarding a warning for it. And I love stories that deal with public/semi-public,exhibitionist type sex,and I enjoy watersports stories and am always disappointed that there aren't that many out there.If you know of any good ones with Steve/Danny could you give me the links,please? :D
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Date: 2012-01-20 02:08 pm (UTC)I won't warn for any kinks. I'll explain them in the summary or the A/N but I don't see the need to warn for kinks,especially in a kink meme!
I have,on occasion commented that I usually don't read such and such kind of stories(very few types because I like almost any kind of kink)but I'm not trying to say I'm ashamed of liking it or that I think it's wrong if others do. I mean it as a compliment for the author. People said that to me in the dub-con story I wrote and I could tell from the tone of the comment that they meant it as a compliment as well.
People should never be made to feel ashamed of liking anything.There's enough censorship and shaming about sexuality(especially women and sexuality)in the "real world". We should be encouraging each other to accept ourselves and enjoy sexuality in our online interactions and fandoms.
Warning for slash is so ridiculous and insulting. I've never seen warning for het,but I'd say the same thing regarding a warning for it.
And I love stories that deal with public/semi-public,exhibitionist type sex,and I enjoy watersports stories and am always disappointed that there aren't that many out there.If you know of any good ones with Steve/Danny could you give me the links,please? :D